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JOEY LAPIERRE – Rhode Island

I’VE BEEN MARRIED TO THIS MAN FOR 3 1/2 YEARS NOW. HE SEEMED VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH ME IN THE BEGINNING ALWAYS DID THINGS FOR ME, WAS VERY AFFECTIONATE, WE TALKED ABOUT EVERYTHING, LAUGHED, JOKED, WENT OUT, AND WAS VERY GOOD TO MY 2 KIDS FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP. HE HAD TWO OF HIS OWN THAT WERE APPROACHING 18 FROM 2 DIFFERENT MOTHERS. HE NEVER PAID CHILD SUPPORT FOR EITHER OF THEM AND BARELY EVER SEEN THEM AS WELL. HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAD BEEN WITH HIS EX FOR 17 YRS ONLY FOR THEIR CHILD AND THAT SHE WAS AWARE THAT HE WAS WITH OTHER WOMEN THE ENTIRE TIME.ALSO THAT HE GAVE HIS HOME AND ALL HIS MONEY TO HER FOR THEIR SON. HE DID ADMIT TO SEEING MULTIPLE DIFFERENT WOMEN BUT HE DID NOT LOVE THEM. THERE WERE A FEW THAT HE WAS HAVING SEX WITH FOR A CAR AND MONEY. WHICH I’M PRETTY SURE THAT IS CALLED PROSTITUTION BUT WHAT DO I KNOW I’M CRAZY LOL. ANYWAYS HE NEVER FELT THE WAY HE DID ABOUT ANYONE ELSE THE WAY HE DID ME AND ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM 9 DAYS AFTER WE BEGAN DATING. I JUST CAME OUT OF A 10 YEAR RELATIONSHIP, LOST MY MOTHER AND FATHER, AND WENT THROUGH A PARTY PHASE FOR 6 MONTHS STRAIGHT WHICH CAUSED ME TO LOSE MY APARTMENT AND BUISNESS. SO LETS JUST SAY I WASN’T REALLY IN THE RIGHT STATE OF MIND AND FELL FOR EVERYTHING HE SAID. I HAD NOTHING TO LOSE AT THIS POINT I HAD A NEW APARTMENT THAT I BARELY EVER STAYED AT SO WE DECIDED I WOULD JUST MOVE IN WITH HIM WITH MY CHILDREN. ALL THE FRIENDS THAT WE BOTH HAD SLOWLY BEGAN TO BE NON EXSISTANT TO US. HE DIDN’T WANT ME WITH FRIENDS , FAMILY, OR WORKING HE COMPLETELY ISOLATED ME. I WAS SO IN LOVE I DIDN’T EVEN CARE I DEVOTED ALL OF MY ATTENTION TO HIM AND MY KIDS. HE MADE ME FEEL LIKE NOBODY ELSE HAS EVER MADE ME FEEL VERY AFFECTIONATE, ATTENTIVE, COMPASSIONATE, ROMANTIC, SPENT A LOT OF TIME WITH MY KIDS, DID ANYTHING FOR ME, AND LITERALLY TOLD ME I WAS BEAUTIFUL HE LOVED ME HUGGED AND KISSED ME EVERYDAY ALL DAY AND HE DID EVERYTHING WITH MY KIDS FOR AT LEAST THE FIRST YEAR. HE WASN’T WORKING DUE TO A BACK INJURY SO WE WERE SURVIVING ON JUST HIS SMALL CHECK AND MY CHILD SUPPORT. HE HAD NO MOTIVATION TO WORK AT ALL HE WANTED TO HAVE SEX, PLAY VIDEO GAMES, SLEEP, AND SMOKE WEED ALL DAY. NOT MUCH HAS CHANGED 3 1/2 YEARS LATER. I BECAME PREGNANT WITHIN THE FIRST YEAR AND THAT IS WERE EVERYTHING BEGAN TO CHANGE. HE NO LONGER DID THINGS WITH MY KIDS AND WOULD EVEN GET MAD IF THEY WANTED ME OR I TOOK MY TIME TO TAKE CARE OF THEM. ALL THE GOOD QAULITIES HE HAD WERE NON EXSISTENT AT THIS POINT. OF COARSE I BROUGHT THIS TO HIS ATTENTION BUT OF COARSE HE BLAMED IT ON THE FACT THAT WE HAD NO MONEY. WE GOT EVICTED AND HAD TO GO LIVE WITH HIS MOTHER. AS SOON AS I NOTICE THE CHANGES I THREATENED TO HAVE AN ABORTION AND FILE FOR DIVORCE. HE WASN’T HAPPY I WAS DRAGGED BY MY ANKLES ACROSS THE KITCHEN FLOOR AND CHOKED UNTIL I NEARLY PASSED OUT. THIS SHOULD’VE BEEN MY QUE TO GO BUT HE GAVE ME THIS GUILT TRIP, CRIED AND SAID HE SNAPPED BECAUSE HE COULDN’T BARE THE THOUGHT OF LOSING ME, MY KIDS, OR OUR BABY. SO I STAYED. ONCE THE BABY WAS BORN IT WAS LIKE WE WERE ROOMATES. HE BEGAN TREATING ME AND MY CHILDREN AS IF WE WERE NOTHING TO HIM. HE WOULD ONLY DO THINGS FOR HIS CHILD NOT ME OR MY KIDS. HE WENT AGAINST EVERYTHING I SAID AND FOUND NEGATIVE THINGS TO SAY ABOUT US EVERYDAY. NOT TO LONG AFTER I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT AGAIN.HE FINALLY GOT A JOB PART TIME DELIVERING PIZZA. BY THIS TIME IT WAS CLEAR TO ME THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM NO MORE JUSTIFYING WHY HE COULD BE LIKE THIS. IT WASN’T OUR FINANCIAL STRUGGLE IT WASN’T HAVING A NEW BABY. I WAS DETERMINED TO FIGURE IT OUT. I BEGAN RECORDING, FOLLOWING, GPS TRACKING, INTERNET SEARCHES, WEB HISTORY, PHONE HISTORY ECT. SURE ENOUGH HE WAS CREATING FAKE SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNT TO CONTACT EXES, MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSING MY KIDS, LOOKING UP PORN AND ESCORTS, AND TALKING TO A GIRL AT WORK. HE OF COARSE DENIED EVERYTHING EVEN WITH THE PROOF IN MY HAND.HE WAS STAYING AT A JOB THAT COULDN’T SUPPORT ONE OF US LET ALONE 6 SO THAT HE COULD DRIVE AROUND LOOKING AT GIRLS, SMOKE WEED, AND SEE HIS WORK GF WHO HE STAYED AFTER WORK MULTIPLE TIMES TO “SMOKE” WITH. I ASKED HIM TO GET A BETTER JOB MULTIPLE TIMED I WAS IGNORED. SOON ENOUGH WE WERE EVICTED I AM STUCK AT MY SISTERS IN ONE ROOM WITH 4 KIDS NO CAR OR LICENSE.HE IS BACK AT HIS MOTHERS. I FILED FOR DIVORCE BUT COULDN’T STAY AWAY DUE TO THE FACT I HAVE NO RIDES OR SOMEONE TO WATCH THE KIDS WHEN I GO TO WORK. HE SWORE THIS MADE HIM SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY AND HE WAS DOING WHATEVER HE COULD TO FIX HIMSELF AND OUR SITUATION. I OBVIOUSLY KNOW HE IS A LIAR AND LIVING SEPARATE JUST MADE IT EASIER FOR HIM TO BE A SCUM BAG.HE CONTINUES TO PHYSICALLY AND MENATLLY HURT MY KIDS CALLS THEM RETARDED, B****, DUMB, AND SAYS IF THEY WERE HIS HE WOULD BEAT THEM. HE HURTS THEM BY GRABBING , PINCHING, OR SHOVING AND ACTS LIKE IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. I’VE HAD NUMEROUS FAMILY MEMBERS CATCH HIM IN THE ACT. I JUST CAUGHT HIM AGAIN TALKING TO SOMEONE ONLY THIS TIME IT WAS REALLY ME WITH A FAKE PHONE NUMBER. HE TOLD HER I WAS A B****, HE LEFT ME, HE HATES MY KIDS, I CAN’T BE TRUSTED AS A MOTHER,I FORCE HIM TO HAVE SEX WITH ME, HE CAN’T STAND HAVING SEX WITH ME, HE WANTED TO FOLLOW HER IN THE BATHROOM AT AN EVENT WE WERE AT TOGETHER, HE DREAMS ABOUT HER, WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH HER, AND MEET HER SOMEWHERE TO HAVE SEX IN OUR VAN WERE OUR KIDS SIT EVERYDAY THEN COME HOME TO ME WHEN HE SUPPOSE TO BE WORKING WHEN HE WAS SUPPOSE TAKE ME OUT FOR MY BDAY BUT CLAIMED HE COULDN’T TAKE THE TIME OFF. ONLY I SHOW UP WITH MY EX AND CONFRONT HIM. HE STILL DENIED IT AND DROVE OFF LIKE A B****. HE HATES MY EX AND HAS CLAIMED HE WAS GOING TO BEAT HIS A** NUMEROUS TIMES BUT WHEN FACED WITH THE CHALLENGED HE PEELED OFF AND THREATENED TO CALL TO COPS. HE LIVES IN THE GHETTO TRYING TO BE A GANGSTA, PLAYER, AND DRUG DEALER BUT CAN’T EVEN SUCCEED AT THAT. NEEDLESS TO SAY I’M DONE WITH HIS B******* AND AM WAITING FOR MY COURT DATE TO BE GRANTED A DIVORCE, CHILD SUPPORT, AND ALIMONY HE MAY HAVE GOTTEN AWAY WITH IT FOR 18 YRS BUT HES NOT FOR THE NEXT 18 THAT’S FOR SURE. SO I’M SURE HE WILL TRY TO RECYCLE THOSE OF YOU HE’S ALREADY BEEN WITH CAUSE YOUR AN EASY TARGET WELL I CAN ASSURE YOU HE HASN’T CHANGED. FOR NEW COMERS SAVE YOURSELF AND KIDS THE WRATH OF JOEY. HE PRAYS ON THE WEAK AND VULNERABLE HE HAS NO STANDARDS OR PREFERENCE AS LONG AS YOU HAVE A V*****. GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT OR WHO HE HAS DONE AND DOESN’T USE PROTECTION. SO IF YOU’VE SLEPT WITH HIM RECENTLY BE SURE TO GET TESTED CAUSE I AM. IF YOU DECIDE TO IGNORE MY WARNING AND FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF GOOD LUCK TO YOU I’M SURE I’LL SEE YOUR POST IN THE NEAR FUTURE AFTER HE’S SUCKED THE LIFE OUT OF YOU, GAVE YOU A CHILD, AND LEFT YOU WITH A PILE OF DEBT AND PROBLEMS. MY INTENTIONS FOR WRITING THIS IS NOT TO PAY HIM BACK FOR WHAT HE DID TO ME. IT IS TO PREVENT ANYMORE WOMEN AND CHILDREN’S LIVES FROM BEING DESTROYED. I NOW HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO FIX EVERYTHING HE HAS DAMAGED WITH MANY OBSTACLES IN MY WAY. NOT HAVING A LICENSE , A CAR OR A BABYSITTER IS GOING TO PREVENT ME FROM BEING ABLE TO PROVIDE FOR MY KIDS AND DIG MY WAY OUT OF DEBT. I WILL NEVER TRUST ANOTHER MAN FOR AS LONG AS I LIVE ESPECIALLY AROUND MY KIDS. ALSO NOW NEED TO GO BACK TO THE BASICS AND TEACH MY KIDS ALL THE CORES VALUES OF LIFE THAT HE HAS STRIPPED FROM THEM. THANK YOU ALL FOR GIVING ME THE STRENGTH TO SHARE MY STORY AND I’M PRAYING FOR THOSE THAT ARE STILL DEALING WITH A SCUM BAG OF THEIR OWN. DON’T EVER LET A MAN MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR WORTHLESS, THAT YOU WON’T MAKE IT WITHOUT HIM, OR THAT SOMEONE ELSE WILL NEVER WANT YOU. THERE ARE STILL SOME GOOD ONES WE ARE JUST ATTRACTED TO THE WRONG ONES. I CAN ASSURE YOU ONCE YOU’VE FOUND THE STRENGTH TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF YOU WILL HAVE A NEW OUTLOOK ON LIFE AND A MAN DOESN’T NEED TO BE IN IT!! HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO THIS TO YOU AS LONG AS YOU LET HIM. SO STOP IT NOW!!!

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