Joanne Roy met my husband while they were both stationed in Ava and they deployed to Italy. For 16 years, she and my husband on/off communication/sexting and god only knows about encounters, she has been a cancer. I’ve reach out only twice 11 years apart explaining nicely to please respect that he’s married. Her first response was “I’m sorry. I had no idea.” Through my entire marriage she chose to disregard my status with him. Even engaging in conversations where they would laugh at me and talk about things he couldn’t stand about me. Both laughing at me and how crazy I am for looking her up time to time on LinkedIn, never messaging her. Last I knew I had that right.
The last episode was my husband left for “pt” while I was making our sons their school lunches, their cell phones were lighting up like crazy with messages. Turns out my husband didn’t log out of his iTunes on their phones and their setting messages were going to our sons!! I screen shorted the entire conversation and emailed it to 4 people including myself. Then hippies into their chat and let my presence be known. I typed in the phone number on Facebook and low and behold. Joanne. So I called her.
She tells him. He tells her not to answer. Ok. I fell apart. He rushed home begged for me to forgive him and immediate called and texted her telling her she wasn’t worth losing his wife and sons. I waited a couple weeks then messaged her. Firmly telling her I’ve had it with her and if she continued to be a 3rd wheel I would go to her superior. She had he balls to to utilize Authority of bullying and told me I don’t know who I’m messing with what she’s capable of and told me she will sue me for harassment! Wow! Then states to me I’m confirming her original thoughts of me and proving how crazy I am by contacting her.
Her husband cheated on her. I get it. She’s ugly as f*ck. She adopted a kid and if I understood it correctly she’s a counselor! Whose the crazy one?! She lies low and keeps herself all cozied in while I suffer and go to counseling to work through the pain anger and grief I wouldn’t have if she could have woman enough to be the one to end it. Selfish, pathetic lonely whore with no regard for my sons not myself. In fact she made that clear with her comment”I don’t care what you and him have together or how many kids, I suggest you leave him.”